Or?
Can it be considered, perhaps, that our lives are not an accident?
Who is to say that there is not someone who is dictating our life. A form of fate perhaps?
Is Lady Fate choosing what happens in our lives, all that happens perhaps is chosen, predetermined. The choices we think we made were chosen for us long ago, and we only believe that we are making a choice.
Just think on this concept. You could argue for hours that our lives are story being written by another.